Quiet things shaped by the senses
As a maker of objects, I have navigated the waters of sentiment and studied the point at which an object becomes a beloved object.
This often involves a transaction: a gift, a purchase, or the exchange of wedding vows. It involves time. The years spent wearing (or living with) the piece –getting to know it a little more each day. In the case of a wedding ring, it requires understanding its relationship to your body, the weather, the environment, the work one does, one’s age. The Mexican essayist, poet, and diplomat Octavio Paz, in one of my favorite essays, said, “The handmade object does not charm us simply because of its usefulness. It lives in complicity with our senses, and that is why it is so hard to get rid of – it is like throwing a friend out of the house.”
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